As a Trophy Wife you live a FAB life. That includes traveling all around the states and abroad, eating at the FINEST restaurants and the best foods. While you are traveling who counts calories? All that good eating caught up with me. I come from a very OUTSPOKEN family and they were the first to tell me “Gurl your hips are spreading.” At first I laughed it off but reality becomes painful. I got my nickname Star from my Dad when I was a child and that’s what most of my family calls me. Well I had a very hateful cousin who said “we are going to STOP calling you Star. You are round like the MOON so that should be you new name.” After that hateful comment I cried it really hurt my feelings. I told myself that I was going to loose some weight. I tried it ALL hydroxide-cut, diet pills, fasting ECT….. I also begin crash dieting. If it was an event coming up then I lived in the gym loose the weight for the event and then gained it all back. Finally I am at a happy place. I lost the weight the right way by proper diet, exercise, and help of a personal trainer, nutritionist and prayer. At the end of the day you have to love the skin you are in. I am so Blessed and Highly Favored. God has giving me a Fabulous body and I am grateful that my body had never failed me. I am able to walk, talk and breathe fresh air everyday who cares if I am doing that with a couple extra pounds. I LOVE THE SKIN I AM IN!!!!!!!!!!KHARISMA
Girl, it's usually the ones that are closest to us and love us the most that can be the most critical and cruel towards us. At times my family makes me sick with the constant scrutiny of my weight. If I gain a pound it's commented on, if I lose a pound it's commented on... and the funniest part is that ALL the women in my family are overweight. I look at them like yall have to be kidding me smdh... look whose talking. But at the end of the day the best way to stick it to them is to be happy with who you are, like you said. I noticed a change in the last year or so within myself, and I have to credit my boyfriend for it. It's like I have so much to be grateful for and joyous about that 10 lbs lighter or heavier is the least of my concerns right now. NOT that I'll be estatic to be obese lol... but you get my drift. It's not ALL about the superficial.And I feel you with regards to the eating out all the time. The night that I wrote this post my honey and I went out for drinks and I was like see... that's exactly the problem. But you know what; life is about choices... you can choose to have the filet mignon or the salad. You dont have to lock yourself up in a room away from all food just to maintain a healthy weight. And that's what I'm workin on now, making better choices.You know damn well you're always gonna be a STAR babes!! You're FAB!Thanks so much for sharing!!xoxo
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As a Trophy Wife you live a FAB life. That includes traveling all around the states and abroad, eating at the FINEST restaurants and the best foods. While you are traveling who counts calories? All that good eating caught up with me. I come from a very OUTSPOKEN family and they were the first to tell me “Gurl your hips are spreading.” At first I laughed it off but reality becomes painful. I got my nickname Star from my Dad when I was a child and that’s what most of my family calls me. Well I had a very hateful cousin who said “we are going to STOP calling you Star. You are round like the MOON so that should be you new name.” After that hateful comment I cried it really hurt my feelings. I told myself that I was going to loose some weight. I tried it ALL hydroxide-cut, diet pills, fasting ECT….. I also begin crash dieting. If it was an event coming up then I lived in the gym loose the weight for the event and then gained it all back. Finally I am at a happy place. I lost the weight the right way by proper diet, exercise, and help of a personal trainer, nutritionist and prayer. At the end of the day you have to love the skin you are in. I am so Blessed and Highly Favored. God has giving me a Fabulous body and I am grateful that my body had never failed me. I am able to walk, talk and breathe fresh air everyday who cares if I am doing that with a couple extra pounds. I LOVE THE SKIN I AM IN!!!!!!!!!!
KHARISMA
Girl, it's usually the ones that are closest to us and love us the most that can be the most critical and cruel towards us. At times my family makes me sick with the constant scrutiny of my weight. If I gain a pound it's commented on, if I lose a pound it's commented on... and the funniest part is that ALL the women in my family are overweight. I look at them like yall have to be kidding me smdh... look whose talking. But at the end of the day the best way to stick it to them is to be happy with who you are, like you said. I noticed a change in the last year or so within myself, and I have to credit my boyfriend for it. It's like I have so much to be grateful for and joyous about that 10 lbs lighter or heavier is the least of my concerns right now. NOT that I'll be estatic to be obese lol... but you get my drift. It's not ALL about the superficial.
And I feel you with regards to the eating out all the time. The night that I wrote this post my honey and I went out for drinks and I was like see... that's exactly the problem. But you know what; life is about choices... you can choose to have the filet mignon or the salad. You dont have to lock yourself up in a room away from all food just to maintain a healthy weight. And that's what I'm workin on now, making better choices.
You know damn well you're always gonna be a STAR babes!! You're FAB!
Thanks so much for sharing!!
xoxo
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